Feeling a bit better

I just spoke with the Dean of Students. He assured me that any time I need to be later than 2 picking up my dd, it's fine. She just needs to let her dorm mother know that she's going to be late leaving and needs to wait in the lobby. I mentioned to him what happened Friday, and explained that she thought she was to be out of the dorm by 2, no exceptions, so she had taken her stuff outside to wait, and her friend was waiting with her so she wouldn't have to wait alone. And then the dorm mother called security, and my dd thinks her friend was probably written up. He asked what was her friend's name, and I told him, and he said yes, but that he hadn't spoken with him yet, and he was glad that I had called. So I hope that means that he'll take that write-up off J.'s record, since he was just trying to help my dd out. I still plan to try to get there by 2, but at least now we know that all she has to do is let her dorm mother know that I'm coming, but will be a little late, and she'll be allowed to wait in the lobby.

I need to email H. and let her know what I found out.